I love my IMPERFECTIONS!!!!!!


"Deeti began to pay more attention towards her flaws and imperfections, and started falling in love with them, she looked more beautiful, like a moon!!” -a line from Amitav Ghosh's book “The Sea of Poppies”.
And suddenly I felt that I’m the most beautiful girl in this whole wide world!!!!!! MY IMPERFECTIONS MAKE ME SPECIAL.!!!
As they say, there’s nothing more rare, nor more beautiful than a woman being UNAPOLOGETICALLY HERSELF, COMFORTABLE IN HER PERFECT IMPERFECTIONS!!!
We all face some sort of judgement by others, some judge us for our looks, some for our colour, body, shape etc. Like I was judged by many for my physical appearance and these judgements take a toll on you, it affects you negatively, but it only affects us when we don’t accept ourselves. Once we start loving our flaws and accept them, we take the first step towards self-love, nothing will really affect you as long as you’re happy with your own self. You won’t even care about what others say or think about you. Accept your flaws, because they are real and they make you authentic.
The truth is that nobody is perfect. Everyone has flaws, and that’s not bad at all. Flaws are actually what makes us human, individual beings with unique characteristics. The moment you compare yourself to others, you demean yourself in your own eyes, unable to recognize the uniqueness inherent in you. When you seek perfection, desiring to become different and special, you will always end up feeling disappointed and dissatisfied — because you already deep down are the different and special being you are seeking to become. And the less you embrace your flaws and accept yourself just the way you are, the more you fuel your inner battle against yourself, causing a continuous state of anguish in your psyche.
You are enough as you are — a unique expression of the universe. Not better than others, not worse than others, but different in your own way.

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  1. ARCHANAJanuary 18, 2022 at 5:40 AM

    True beauty ❤️ is what lies hidden behind the skin and bones..pumping in the heart , throbbing in the mind and reflecting through the thoughts as well as actions

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  2. UnknownJanuary 18, 2022 at 6:52 AM

    Very nice 👍

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  3. Ashoo MehrotraJanuary 18, 2022 at 10:31 AM

    Physical beauty is temporary but we should respect n rever inner beauty which is permanent n acceptance of our imperfections will definitely make us a perfect person.....very nice n motivating post����

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  4. AkshayJanuary 19, 2022 at 4:07 AM

    It's so nice to see you as a matured author now. Nobody is perfect and everyone has flaws so the best thing we could do is "be yourself". This blog also reminds me of a classic masterpiece from Audioslave, do listen to it: https://youtu.be/WC5FdFlUcl0

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